Unconditional Love

I have written about this particular topic before and of course it is the mainstay of most writings because unconditional love is the Essence of Creation. The world is so unbalanced at this time regarding love which creates confusion and chaos.

Unconditional Love is not the controlling, lustful, jealous, romantic feeling that people experience. Unconditional love does not need to have a connection to another person to be complete and fulfill you, but a connection to all Life and existence. The closest one experiences is the love of a mother for her child.

It is shown in the image of a mother cat or dog who is hurt or sick due to homelessness and no food, who continues to care for her kittens. She will sacrifice herself to give them life. I am reminded of the main theme of the Harry Potter movies in which his mother sacrificed herself to save him and used the oldest magic in the world -LOVE saying, “Harry, your momma loves you, and your dady loves you.” as she is killed.

Parents love their children, want the best for them and to keep them safe. Parents learn how to parent from their parents and grandparents. If they had a bad, abused and neglected childhood, it could be a blessing or a hindrance. Why would I say blessing? Well, they have seen what they didn’t like about parents, and if they have done the work to clear the old pain within themselves, they have the opportunity to be excellent examples for their children. If they have allowed themselves to stay in victim consciousness, they will probably repeat the patterns.

The patterns we learn of how to be a parent are part of the domestication principles set forth in the society and environment in which you live. It teaches you how to think, feel, act, believe and set goals and judge right from wrong in your life. You domesticated beliefs stay with you as part of your brain/psyche even when you have reached adulthood, unless you have come to a point of searching and questioning. This is your inner parent, that continues to be the basis upon which you base your life. It requires a consicous choice and action to look at these beliefs and decide if they are what you truly desire in your life. THESE are not unconditional love beliefs, but domesticated controlling love beliefs. It is not the fault of your parents, for as I said they learned from prior generations what the rules are that are passed to the next generation. They did the best they could based on their inner parent systems of belief.

Every baby comes in full of unconditional love, conditional love or domesitcation is learned. Unconditional love is without judgment, control or illusion. Unconditional love brings joy, acceptance and caring. This is the essence of our being. It does not mean we turn our eyes from one person harming another. However, not knowing the underlying cause of their actions, we need after helping to stop the abuse or harm, to get the help needed for both the abuser and abused. The law of balance and karma, go beyond our current lifetime as a source of interactions. Sometimes a person abused was an abuser in another life, even of that person abusing them now, and the scales are being balanced. That does not make their action right, it means that perhaps in our stepping in we are able to help them both to clear and balance their karma,

We can also surround them after getting them help to surround them in the Violet Flame of transmutation to help clear the energies around them so they can breath and help themselves. Always ask for inner guidance in all actions so as not to create karma for yourself, and to allow for their higher self to fulfill the contract they made coming into this life. The violet flame is a powerful tool in sending forth around others to clear the energies so they have the clear space to think and perhaps make better choices.

Unconditional love allows us to see the Divine Spark of the Creator within all life even when one doesn’t see it in themselves. By seeing this spark we understand that we are all one, and in harming, judging or controlling another we are doing this unto a part of ourselves. That which we see in another and brings forth a reaction, is because they are a mirror of that which is buried deep within us that we have yet to look at release and transform. For when we are clear and hold no misqualified energies, we can truly have unconditional love, compassion and acceptance for all, who are part of us.

“Unconditional love really exists in each of us. It is part of our deep inner being. It is not so much an active emotion as a state of being.” – Ram Dass

Namaste

I Am Moriah