Transference and Blame

Instead of accepting responsibility for one’s actions and thoughts, we tend to want to find another to blame for our situation so that we can be the victim and thus not be responsibile for our situation. These means that we can tell ourselves and others that we are blameless and without fault in difficult situations, in which we have been unable to control in order to obtain a desire outcome.

It is an all to familiar scenario we find these days. We cannot advance spiritually either as an individual or as a whole until we each learn to examine all situations and challenges in order to recognize and take responsibility for our actions and participation in the situation and the eventual outcome. If each participant had been mindful in the situation, and sought a higher perspective the impeccability of the actions of each would have brought forth a beneficial outcome for all involved.

All events and situations in our lives, especially those that are challenging are an opportunity to grow and experience our lives from a higher perspective. What is a higher perspective? It is when we go within our hearts, and seek to find peace and balance. In this state of balance, we can then ask to be show the higher perspective. Eventually, as we practice this self mastery, we will begin to live our lives fully guided by our soul and I Am Presence aligned to the Universal Mind and Oneness.

We will no longer see ourselves as Victims or use the victim psychology to not take responsibility for our actions and choices. Are there victims? That is a multi-level question, that most are able to fully understand yet, based on past life cause and effect, it can be complicated. Thus, I will say yes. For example, a baby that is abused or neglected, or an animal. They are victims, for they are being acted upon by one from which they are unable to defend themselves.

For most people there is a Law of listening Grace. That is where as I stated before we go within to our hearts and calm our energy, to ask to be shown and then listen for direction. When we move into self Mastery our lives become a state of Listening Grace, that is our normal state of Being. Our soul and our I Am Presence, are constantly trying to help us to live an impeccable life and to complete that which we came into this life to do and to make our Ascension.

For instance, there are stories where during 9-11 there were people who felt they should not get on a plane, or not go to work that day and who lived because of this guidance. What about he people who died. They were victims, but many made the choice not to spend their final moments on earth as victims and choose to be Heroes and help to save others, to take back their power. Those who died during these events, did not die in vain for they changed the perspective of humanity regarding the world, as did the victims of Covid 19.

Throughout our lives our soul is trying to guide us as are the Angels and other Light Beings. We need to listen in order to hear and to act upon that intuitive message. We learn to have faith in what we receive through practce. In this way we are no longer making ego centered choices and actions but ones to lead us into a more loving, enlightened and abundant life. Our ego choices are those that create the chaos of the world. When they don’t go the way we want we seek to transfer blame to another and be the victim.

Take back your power and authority in your life fo who you are, your choices and the life you create and live. Make your beliefs those that you know within are your truth, from your Soul and not the truth you were told you should hold as your ideal. BE ALL THAT YOU CAN BE. It is possible and starts by taking responsbility in your life.

Namaste

I AM Margurite

Belief

We are what we believe.

We use our awareness/rational mind to judge and analyze everything and everyone in our lives. Our beliefs create the stories of our life, which is a virtual false image.

Reality comes from the Spirit/Soul. Reality is truth not belief. My physical presence in this existence is truth. All information in our mind, that cause us to have an ideal or belief of what is real and correct, is learned from others. They delivered a message to us as an authority and we gave them that authority and believed their message.

The problem is not knowledge it is the distortion of knowlege to fit a learned pattern. We have to learn to distinguish between truth and falsity or lies. Your belief colors everything you see, hear and how you live. It creates your life story, a false image of who your truly are a virtual reality based on the beliefs given to us as truth by others.

There is only one way to know Reality and Truth and that is through the heart and soul. It is important to have self awareness and mastery in our lives over our beliefs, thoughts, words and deeds. For our thoughts and words create the world in which we live. We need to master our thoughts, words and deed to live an IMPECCABLE life.

Don Juan who was the teacher of Carlos Castaneda told a story of how his teacher Don Julian taught him to live Impeccably. Don Julian said to be Impeccable is to make the highest use of your energy. To teach him this Don Julian threw him in the river, saying don’t be mad at the river. Of course, he flailed about frustrated and fearful, but eventually he let go of the anger at Don Julian, and he couldn’t be angry at the river, so he decided to begin to swim and go with the flow of the river.

When he went with the flow of the river, the river helped him to live and make his way to shore. The intention is attention focused in the direction of a choice. In this instance, the river made the choice for don Juan. We can learn that instead of being angry at another person or the challenges and conditions of our lives which don’t match our beliefs and desires , we can instead CHOOSE to focus our attention on how to flow with the highest perspective and outcome possible for all involved. We then place our intent and attention upon that outcome from a heart centered perspective. Not playing the victim or trying to control others, but instead taking responsibility for our part in the situation at this moment and seeking the highest solution.

To be impeccable in speech is to stop when we have a thought before we speak and act and ask ourselves is our intent of the highest perspective or are we trying to control others or justify our actions based on past beliefs and perspectives. When we can do this we have reached self mastery and become impeccable in our Being allowing us to live a heart centered and enlightened life.

Our words have the power to create or destroy. The word is a messenger of our energies and thoughts into the unrealized potential of creation. Acting upon it and manifesting that which is our intent into form. If we don’t like the world in which we find ourselves it is because our thoughts have not been balanced and in harmony with the Universal Mind of Creator Source, but instead based on human mass consciousness beliefs.

I love the THINK acronym. T(is it true) H (Is it helpful) I ( what is your intent) N ( is it neccesary) K ( is it kind)

Beliefs – are learned from others, we gave them authority in our lives by accepting these beliefs as our truth and ideals. It is time we take a second look at them, especially if your life is not fulfilling you spiritually. It is time to let go and transform the old, to allow a new higher perspective to guide you your intent and help you to live and Impeccable life.

Namaste

I Am Marguerite