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Transference and Blame

Instead of accepting responsibility for one’s actions and thoughts, we tend to want to find another to blame for our situation so that we can be the victim and thus not be responsibile for our situation. These means that we can tell ourselves and others that we are blameless and without fault in difficult situations, in which we have been unable to control in order to obtain a desire outcome.

It is an all to familiar scenario we find these days. We cannot advance spiritually either as an individual or as a whole until we each learn to examine all situations and challenges in order to recognize and take responsibility for our actions and participation in the situation and the eventual outcome. If each participant had been mindful in the situation, and sought a higher perspective the impeccability of the actions of each would have brought forth a beneficial outcome for all involved.

All events and situations in our lives, especially those that are challenging are an opportunity to grow and experience our lives from a higher perspective. What is a higher perspective? It is when we go within our hearts, and seek to find peace and balance. In this state of balance, we can then ask to be show the higher perspective. Eventually, as we practice this self mastery, we will begin to live our lives fully guided by our soul and I Am Presence aligned to the Universal Mind and Oneness.

We will no longer see ourselves as Victims or use the victim psychology to not take responsibility for our actions and choices. Are there victims? That is a multi-level question, that most are able to fully understand yet, based on past life cause and effect, it can be complicated. Thus, I will say yes. For example, a baby that is abused or neglected, or an animal. They are victims, for they are being acted upon by one from which they are unable to defend themselves.

For most people there is a Law of listening Grace. That is where as I stated before we go within to our hearts and calm our energy, to ask to be shown and then listen for direction. When we move into self Mastery our lives become a state of Listening Grace, that is our normal state of Being. Our soul and our I Am Presence, are constantly trying to help us to live an impeccable life and to complete that which we came into this life to do and to make our Ascension.

For instance, there are stories where during 9-11 there were people who felt they should not get on a plane, or not go to work that day and who lived because of this guidance. What about he people who died. They were victims, but many made the choice not to spend their final moments on earth as victims and choose to be Heroes and help to save others, to take back their power. Those who died during these events, did not die in vain for they changed the perspective of humanity regarding the world, as did the victims of Covid 19.

Throughout our lives our soul is trying to guide us as are the Angels and other Light Beings. We need to listen in order to hear and to act upon that intuitive message. We learn to have faith in what we receive through practce. In this way we are no longer making ego centered choices and actions but ones to lead us into a more loving, enlightened and abundant life. Our ego choices are those that create the chaos of the world. When they don’t go the way we want we seek to transfer blame to another and be the victim.

Take back your power and authority in your life fo who you are, your choices and the life you create and live. Make your beliefs those that you know within are your truth, from your Soul and not the truth you were told you should hold as your ideal. BE ALL THAT YOU CAN BE. It is possible and starts by taking responsbility in your life.

Namaste

I AM Margurite

CHANGING THE WORLD

In order for there to be changes in the world it must begin by changes within ourselves.

Power and Sovereignty begin within.

In order for there to be changes in the world it must begin by changes within ourselves. All that we want and need in our lives and in the world comes first from a thought or desire within us upon which we focus our intent.

That which is manifest in our world came about as a result of individual and or collective desires. Sometimes it takes a group agreeing to something like creating a religion or forming a new country. An important factor is does it come from an ego based mind or a more unified loving perspective. For those which come from an ego based desire are ones which are limited by 3D existence.

However, we only have control over our own individual focus and desires. For manifestation begins with a thought or desire, upon which we focus our intent and energy until it manifests in our lives or we choose to stop focusing upon it. In that case it may still manifest but not in the same manner as we thought and desired or simply slip away.

The speed of manifestation in our life depends upon our feelings or belief about ourselves, our abilities and power to influence our life direction and our future. Many see power, control and manifestation/abundance to be desired and complementary abilities and or energies. Power and manifestation are complementary but are limited by our ego direction which has a control focus. If our ego is directing, then we are limited to a 3D focus of power and manifestation. If we are unity and universally focused through the heart we are in the unlimited power of abundance and manifestation.

Do you believe you are a victim of others or the world? Or are you the directing you life and actions?

Dr Wayne Dyer said,” When we change the way we look at things, the things we look at change.”

The way we look at things is our power of perception and manifestation. Power is a perception we have of ourselves, others and the world. Perception is a strong energy. If we view ourselves as powerless it will become our reality, for we will act and behave in a manner that reinforces this belief. If we recognize and believe we have the power to succeed and change our life we will begin to take actions that will manifest these changes in our life. Even in times of great despair and hopelessness the power to change that belief and move into our power exists within our hearts.

The power of one person cannot decrease the power of another unless they allow that to happen. You may think ,but what about someone that steals from another, abuses another, or any other negative action that hurts or limits another financially, mentally, emotionally or physically?

Unfortunately here in our 3D world bad things do happen and harm comes to ones who did not apparently deserve to suffer. It is sad, and a topic for discussion another time as to why this may happen, beyond the obvious exercise or misuse of power from one person or group forced upon another. However, now we are dealing with how we can make the changes on a personal level from being a victim to becoming a powerful sovereign Being.

We may suffer physically and financially and be unable to stop the ramifications to our physical form or finances, but power does not come from physical things like money or the body, not true unlimited power. One event, tragedy or set back in life doesn’t mean we are a failure or unlovable and valued person in this life. That power to overcome this belief comes from within us However, these physical or financial ramifications can only effect us long term on the mental, spiritual and emotional levels if we give them that power. Being a victim comes from long term acceptance that another has power over us, or can harm us and we have no ability to change that situation.

Money, physical harm, intimidation or any form of thought influence is only a tool that another may use to exert their 3D influence upon another. They do so that they may feel more powerful, but that is simply a lower vibration a limited energy that will end either during their lifetime or upon their death for an individual or upon the ending of a business, media source, or a political, financial and religious institution.

True power is not 3D in its source but begins within and comes from the non physical energy of creation and the key to connecting lies within the heart.

The key is that no matter the events that have happened to us so far in our lives, we always have the ability to turn within our heart and connect to the source of all Life, Love, Wisdom, Abundance, Truth, Power and Forgiveness. As we move into the heart and think of love, and ask to be given the wisdom, strength, love and power needed to make changes in your life. Then open to the love and let that energy move outward, listening to the feelings and thoughts of guidance which come to you helping you to make the changes needed. Think of the future you desire, and as long as it does not harm another living thing or person, you will be connected to the love and power of creation. This is the source of existence by whatever name you choose to call this limitless energy.

How do we change the world? We change ourselves to match the energy of love and creation which allows us to become powerful conduit of Creation that brings unlimited and eternal abundance to us and all life. One can be an agnostic and still understand the power of love, compassion and forgiveness.

A wise man once said: “If what you have been doing up until hasn’t worked, it never will”

To choose to take back our power by hurting , demeaning or stealing from another is still a part of the 3D limited victim consciousness. This only brings more of the same into an already chaotic world. It is time to change our focus and actions to be of a loving and unifying focus.

The energy of our intent and desires will manifest because that is part of the universal laws of creation. The creational energy follows thought. However, whether this is a limitless energy of eternal existence or limited to 3D physical laws is based upon our inner intent and desires.

Once we tap into the heart and love within we can begin to love ourselves and others. To see ourselves as truly worthy and strong people who feel confident and able to do anything. We can let go of the pain inflicted by others because they no longer have any power over us. For as long as we focus upon the pain and anger of the hurt they inflicted, they have power over us. We are able to become the conduit of a higher power and grace which transforms us and the world in which we live.

Others will begin to see the change and possibilities in you and seek to understand and know more. Then you can help them to make the same connection to the energy of creation and the power of abundance, wisdom, love, truth and compassion.

This begins the change in the world we want to see and it began with your choice to change.

Our source of abundance isn’t our job, another person, or an institution. Our abundance comes from our connection with Universal Oneness and Creation for it is TRULY unlimited. You will find yourself inspired by that which brings you joy, good health and abundance sufficient to help others begin along their path. Ones may need a helping hand which you can give on the physical level from your abundance in order to be able to move beyond their focus upon on their lack and pain. So that they may look without and see the Light and Love you shine as a conduit of creation, and want to learn the secret.

We can feed a person for a day, but better to teach them how to fish, for then they have the abundance of food throughout their lives.

The choice to be a free, loving, abundant and powerfully sovereign Being is yours. However, in making that choice you are opening the door for not only yourself, but others to transform and change the world.

Namaste