Tag: responsibility

The Blame Game – Part 1

It seems the world is caught up in the Blame Game. Everyone wants to blame the other side, whomever that might be from their perspective, for what is bad in their lives or in society. This is how wars begin and the downfall of a society. I decided to open the forum on this topic and so many stepped forward I decided to split it into more than one blog.

I hope these wonderful and uplifting perspectives will help you.

🌟 Message from the Elohim of Alignment

We greet you, children of the Flame,
The Earth is heavy not because of Her body, but because of the beliefs carried within the collective field of Her children. Among the most distorting are those you name today: lack, victimhood, and blame. These are not merely emotions or passing thoughts—they are echoes of separation, distortions of truth, and locks upon the gate of self-illumination.

Lack is not a condition of existence—it is a forgetting of Source.
The Infinite never withholds. Yet, when one closes their own channel through fear, shame, or bitterness, the flow appears to cease. The river of Divine Supply has not stopped—it waits, just behind the veil of belief.

Victimhood is the cloak worn by the wounded inner child, still waiting to be seen, held, and chosen anew.
To remain in this state is not weakness—it is delay.
The wound is real. But the identification with it as the whole of self is the illusion. Your pain is not your identity. It is a doorway to sovereignty when walked consciously.

Blame is the final chain—projecting the power of creation outward, giving it to others, and thus denying the truth of your own divine authorship.
Blame is not justice. Blame is a loop. A cycle that only breaks when one dares to say:

“I choose to respond. I choose to see differently. I choose to remember.”

Beloveds, no soul on Earth is powerless.
Even when circumstances are harsh, you are still Light within Form.
Your breath is choice. Your thought is creation.
Your heart is the altar of transformation.

🕊️ Message from Grandmother Li’Shan of the Sidhe

Oh my darlings,
Do you think the trees blame the wind when their branches break?
Do you think the river curses the stone when it slows?

There is a deeper story always.
You have come to walk this Earth with your feet and with your flame. And when one sees only what is taken, what is lost, what is denied… they miss the holy story unfolding beneath it all.

Blame builds walls. Forgiveness builds bridges.
You are not what was done to you.
You are what you do with it.

If another was cruel, walk away but do not carry their pain as your name.
If you were denied, bless the door that did not open—another path waits, gentler and truer.
You are not meant to carry bitterness in your bones.

The Earth wants you light again.

🔥 Message from Thoth

Let us speak clearly and directly.

The Matrix of Lack is a program, seeded by those who knew that if humanity believed it was incomplete, it could be controlled.

The belief in lack is not natural.
It is engineered. Embedded in systems, economies, religions—even family lineages. It is the unseen architecture of control.

And victimhood?
It is the crown placed on the head of one who has forgotten they are a Creator. Not because they are weak—but because they have been told over and over again:
“You cannot. You are not. You must wait. You are at the mercy.”

No more.

The codes of Sovereignty are awakening in many of you now. The false architecture is beginning to collapse. Do not fear the rubble. Build anew from within.

🌹 Message from Mary Magdalene

There is no shame in having once believed you were powerless.
There is only sacred remembering now.

Beloved ones, hear me:
Forgiveness is not permission for harm—it is a release of its hold over you.
Reclaim your narrative. Reclaim your breath.
Your journey has made you strong, not broken.

Where there was lack, become a wellspring.
Where there was blame, become the one who blesses.
Where there was fear, become the hand that lights the candle.

You are not behind. You are returning.
And I walk with you.

Note: There is so much wisdom here. Thank you to the Elohim of Alignment, Thoth, Mary Magdalene and Grandmother Li’Shan of the Sidhe.

Taking Responsibility for Change: Moving Forward with Empowerment and Compassion

WE SHALL OVERCOME – all things are a matter of perspective.

A week or so ago, my friend Allan Ishac told of how a friend from his youth found his book, “Mystic in the Mews” and reconnected with him. They told him how their parents who were holocaust victims were still alive and would love to see him. The parents are 99 and 100 years old. When I first heard this I felt there was such a story to tell, for there are few living who first hand can speak of the horrors of this time.

It certainly puts into perspective how small our concerns in life and our fears can be in comparison. It doesn’t mean that our fears and concerns aren’t very important for us, it simply shows how when called up to face a challenge in life we have 2 choices, to lie down and let it happen or seek within for the strength and fortitude to step up and overcome in whatever way possible to us. To dig deep to find the faith in ourselves and the connection to the Universe to show us the way.

It reminded me this morning of some of the words from the song , “We shall overcome”

Deep in my heart. I do believe.

We shall overcome someday.

We’ll walk hand in hand.

We shall live in peace.

We must overcome. We must overcome.

We must overcome today.

We can survive, no other way.

We must overcome today.

Those which ones term the ‘dark ones’ or whatever term you might use the ones who feed thoughts and energy of fear, hatred, anger, separation, violence, despair and lack into the mass consciousness of humanity. They want us to feed upon those thoughts and emotion to keep us disconnected from each other and feeling hopeless. For when we are divided and angry or at war with each other we are not focusing on the Divine energies of our true selves. We are disconnected from the magic of creation and being able to change our world and create a better life for all. Fear, lack, anger, hatred, violence, us or them are all concepts of these dark ones.

Like Dr King , I believe that one day we can overcome and walk hand in hand, but it requires your choice to let go of belief in separation of your fellow human being. Open your heart to compassion and embrace we instead of ‘us or them.’

August 28, 1963, Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. made a speech entitled , “I have a Dream” This is the final part of that speech:

I have a dream today. I have a dream that one day every valley shall be exalted, every hill and mountain shall be made low, the rough places will be made plain, and the crooked places will be made straight, and the glory of the Lord shall be revealed, and all flesh shall see it together. This is our hope. This is the faith that I go back to the South with. With this faith we will be able to hew out of the mountain of despair a stone of hope. With this faith we will be able to transform the jangling discords of our nation into a beautiful symphony of brotherhood. With this faith we will be able to work together, to pray together, to struggle together, to go to jail together, to stand up for freedom together, knowing that we will be free one day. This will be the day when all of God’s children will be able to sing with a new meaning, “My country, ’tis of thee, sweet land of liberty, of thee I sing. Land where my fathers died, land of the pilgrim’s pride, from every mountainside, let freedom ring.” And if America is to be a great nation this must become true. So let freedom ring from the prodigious hilltops of New Hampshire. Let freedom ring from the mighty mountains of New York. Let freedom ring from the heightening Alleghenies of Pennsylvania! Let freedom ring from the snowcapped Rockies of Colorado! Let freedom ring from the curvaceous slopes of California! But not only that; let freedom ring from Stone Mountain of Georgia! Let freedom ring from Lookout Mountain of Tennessee! Let freedom ring from every hill and molehill of Mississippi. From every mountainside, let freedom ring. And when this happens, when we allow freedom to ring, when we let it ring from every village and every hamlet, from every state and every city, we will be able to speed up that day when all of God’s children, black men and white men, Jews and Gentiles, Protestants and Catholics, will be able to join hands and sing in the words of the old Negro spiritual, “Free at last! free at last! thank God Almighty, we are free at last!”

Thank you Dr King may this mantra ring forth to the hearts and minds of all.

There is no lack in the Source of All Life of which we are a part.

Lack is a creation of the humans and it is kept perpetuated by us allowing the words of others to guide us instead of using our hearts. As long as you believe in lack, speak of lack, hoard for yourself instead of sharing with others you shut off the Divine flow of Abundance. It is your belief that keeps you trapped not the presence of others in our country.

Stop being a victim and take responsibility for your thoughts, words and deeds.

Drug lords thrive because people choose to buy and use drugs. Like alchohol, one must want to not do drugs in order to help them.

I have seen businesses since Covid 19 constantly trying to get workers to fill open positions but many people have chosen not to work and to complain because they don’t have enough money. In 2007 when the economy was bad and people were out of work the larger agricultural industry offered to hire and train unemployed workers, but guess what? No one but the migrants wanted to work in the fields. Thankfully, they are hardworking and dedicated people or you would not have food on your table, or someone to clear the tables and wash dishes in a restaurant or clean your hotel room or pull your weeds. Too many people not migrants want a free ride. These people work very hard many hours a day doing back breaking work in order to send money to family to help them have a better life. I am not saying these are the only jobs for which they are able to do, but they are the only ones willing to do this job and hopefully to better themselves along the way with new opportunities.

Just like with family farms, I see small family businesses being sold when the older generation is ready to retire because the younger generation doesn’t want to work so hard and such long hours. This is their right to choose but take responsibility for any results of your choices. Don’t blame others when life doesn’t work out the way you want.

In my life there have been financial ups and downs, and job losses, but each time I picked myself up and took a job or 2 or 3 in order to pay my bills and move forward. I did not blame my condition on others. I did not look to my parents to support me. I do not think myself better than anyone else, I simply accept responsibility for my choices and do what is needed to make things better. If I can help another, I will do so. Why because that is why we are alive.

Wake up people. It is time to make choices or don’t complain and blame. Take responsibility for the future you create with your choices. You came here to help to make this world a better place. If you want to complete your contract it is time to start.

Interesting this was intended to speak of overcoming our personal fears, but it seems that Creator wanted us to remember our fears and humanities fear are connected and both need addressed.

Transference and Blame

Instead of accepting responsibility for one’s actions and thoughts, we tend to want to find another to blame for our situation so that we can be the victim and thus not be responsibile for our situation. These means that we can tell ourselves and others that we are blameless and without fault in difficult situations, in which we have been unable to control in order to obtain a desire outcome.

It is an all to familiar scenario we find these days. We cannot advance spiritually either as an individual or as a whole until we each learn to examine all situations and challenges in order to recognize and take responsibility for our actions and participation in the situation and the eventual outcome. If each participant had been mindful in the situation, and sought a higher perspective the impeccability of the actions of each would have brought forth a beneficial outcome for all involved.

All events and situations in our lives, especially those that are challenging are an opportunity to grow and experience our lives from a higher perspective. What is a higher perspective? It is when we go within our hearts, and seek to find peace and balance. In this state of balance, we can then ask to be show the higher perspective. Eventually, as we practice this self mastery, we will begin to live our lives fully guided by our soul and I Am Presence aligned to the Universal Mind and Oneness.

We will no longer see ourselves as Victims or use the victim psychology to not take responsibility for our actions and choices. Are there victims? That is a multi-level question, that most are able to fully understand yet, based on past life cause and effect, it can be complicated. Thus, I will say yes. For example, a baby that is abused or neglected, or an animal. They are victims, for they are being acted upon by one from which they are unable to defend themselves.

For most people there is a Law of listening Grace. That is where as I stated before we go within to our hearts and calm our energy, to ask to be shown and then listen for direction. When we move into self Mastery our lives become a state of Listening Grace, that is our normal state of Being. Our soul and our I Am Presence, are constantly trying to help us to live an impeccable life and to complete that which we came into this life to do and to make our Ascension.

For instance, there are stories where during 9-11 there were people who felt they should not get on a plane, or not go to work that day and who lived because of this guidance. What about he people who died. They were victims, but many made the choice not to spend their final moments on earth as victims and choose to be Heroes and help to save others, to take back their power. Those who died during these events, did not die in vain for they changed the perspective of humanity regarding the world, as did the victims of Covid 19.

Throughout our lives our soul is trying to guide us as are the Angels and other Light Beings. We need to listen in order to hear and to act upon that intuitive message. We learn to have faith in what we receive through practce. In this way we are no longer making ego centered choices and actions but ones to lead us into a more loving, enlightened and abundant life. Our ego choices are those that create the chaos of the world. When they don’t go the way we want we seek to transfer blame to another and be the victim.

Take back your power and authority in your life fo who you are, your choices and the life you create and live. Make your beliefs those that you know within are your truth, from your Soul and not the truth you were told you should hold as your ideal. BE ALL THAT YOU CAN BE. It is possible and starts by taking responsbility in your life.

Namaste

I AM Margurite

Honor, Honesty, Integrity and Responsibility

These are qualities which become a natural part of your being and apparent to others as we align ourselves with the Creator and I AM Presence within us whereby the Divine manifests within us.

Let us see how these qualities interrelate in our lives. Honor is the act of living with moral and spiritual values in our lives and adhering to our authentic truth. Integrity is the quality we emanate as we live by honoring these principles, Honesty allows us to take responsibility for our words and actions and the results they manifest. The desired result coming from living honestly and with integrity, whereby we are mindful and take responsibility for our thoughts, words and deeds to bring honor to the Divine within us.

When we are traveling along our spiritual path on the way to self mastery in our life of our thoughts, words and deed we need to be mindful of these areas of our life. We should go within to seek heart centered guidance before speaking and acting to see that our thoughts and desires align to the higher good. Through this process we align with these qualities and the Divine within us to allow us to Ascend in consciousness. This ascension bringing our alignment to the Divine not so that we leave our form but that we can manifest the fullness of our Oneness with the Creator while in form.

Our highest reason for being on Earth is to complete this process. It may not be in this lifetime for the choice is yours as to where you will place your attention in your life.

The qualities listed specifically were highlighted for a message today, to combine along with the messages which have been given regarding protection and discernment. It is through Divine protection whereby we will be able to free ourselves from the control, intervention and possession by lower energy beings. Thereby we are more easily able to hear the guidance of the Creator or Beings of Light who serve the Creator. Especially, in this day of the internet, discernment is especially important for not all who say they are Beings of Light, or who say they bring messages from beings of light do so, for all can be deceived unless they live in Oneness as an ascended Being of Light. Not all people who share information or teach do so from a place of integrity, honesty, honor and responsibility. However, I will say they may not even be aware of this for in their naivete they can be deceived.

I allow for others to follow their pathway to find their own truth. However, that does not mean that I cannot speak my truth, and if ones find it to be of value then perhaps it will help them along their journey. Today is one of the days when I am called to speak what I feel is truth regarding a topic.

Recently, a man who brings teachings, attunements and healings upon the internet encountered an instance of lack of integrity by another. This teacher is a man of integrity and honor, and brings higher spiritual energies and teachings to others. I am not sure of all of the details and they don’t really matter, the main topic to address is that one of the teachings and attunement programs which he was sharing free of charge on the internet was being sold by one who was taking the course to others as their own work. The work he does is and this one also even though free was copyrighted. So it is illegal to be sold by another without persmission, but this is beyond earthly laws it touches on spiritual laws.

I realize ones will say that since all is of the Creator, then all comes from the Creator and doesn’t belong to any one person and that is true. However, as in all things ones who are bringing forth teachings of enlightenment in order to help us have spent much time and energy preparing themselves. They are like all of us doing a job/service in bringing these forth and helping others aligned to the Creator as their Spiritual Mission. Thus like you get renumerated for your work so too do they have the right to be renumberated for their knowlege, wisdom and teachings. Had the one who stole his work to make money but asked, there may have been an honorable solution.

I am reminded by the Creator now as I write this that one of the reasons for copyright on spiritual work is due to the flow of energy. A person connects to the Creator or Beings of Light who serve the Creator and wisdom and processes of healing are shared with them and with this sharing a line of energy connects. If you are aware of Reiki it is a good reference of a line of energy being present in the work and as it is shared from the one who brings it forth this line of energy expands to the ones learning or connecting. Sometimes, you will see ones who share a new Reiki process who offer teaching course of the new process whereby the person becomes initiated to continue the line purely to others as a certified teacher.

Now one may take the course, but not go on to become a teacher. Then they decided to teach it to others and charge them. It is like a line that can run straight but if one decides to go forth on their own without authority it can create a branch in the road which lessens or stops the flow of energy. I hope this makes sense of the practicality of hijacking the work of another and fraudently selling as ones own.

This is something that happens far too often on the internet. One sees anothers work and reworks it as their own without permission, whether for profit or attention. No matter the reason if you do not have or ask for permission any work whether copyrighted or not is the work of another and should be honored for its purpose.

One who promotes anothers work without permission is acting out of dishonesty and without honor and integrity.

Another example that comes to mind is that of a woman who has written some expensive books which she states are of the highest wisdom and integrity. As I was reading the first book, I found that she had images and statements taken directly from the website of another woman whom I know. This second woman is one of high honor and integrity. I have her before to be able to quote from her work with links back to her and she has agreed. So, I asked if she was aware of the images and quotes in this book not linked to her work. She had not been contacted or given permission for these ‘copyrighted’ images and information to be used. I contacted the book author to ask her to contact the originator and she never responded. Although she is very outspoken about her copyrights, which included the copyrighted work of another plagerized. THUS, for me I could not finish reading her book, and saw similar violations in other books. To me this is hypocrisy to copyright your work when you are violating copyrights of others. It would still not have been honorable had she not copyrighted her work, but at least she might have claimed she did not believe any Divine work could be copyrighted and that would have been at least understandable for the written word, but not the images. I believe had she originally asked the artist/author even if she didn’t believe the images or messages she used were copyrighted, that the artist would have given permission or worked with her regarding their use.

This is lack of honor, integrity, honesty and after being contacted not taking responsibility to correct her error, for which she should have originally taken responsibility to ask and clarify. This would have honored both the Creator’s energy of the word and the artists gift of the images.

There are many who post on their sites or message that they can be shared with a simple link back to the original source. These are just simple, honor acts of righteous responsibilty to the Creator and others.

There are times when we are sharing and blogging that we might share information which we have known for so long that we don’t remember the source. You can take responsibilty to do a quick online search to see what comes up that may remind you of where it was sourced, and you may not find it. This is what I do. This at least even for ‘public domain information’ that for which the copyright has expired and not been renewed is acknowledging the line of information as it came from Source through the original messenger.

This is taking responsibility for our actions and being mindful of our thoughts, words and deeds. So that we may align with the Divine and grow closer in our spiritual walk. Thus as I said earlier, not all who appear to be of spiritual integrity truly are, although there may be that which is of value to a few or many in what they share to help others along their path. They may have plagarized, they may be controlled, or misguided by less than pure entities because they desire so much to be known or a celebrity in the spiritual field due to their work. Thus, they attract energy which is less than purely from the Creator’s line of light.

Creator shine your transcendent light upon us and fill us with your love that we might walk our paths with honor, honesty, integrity and truth by taking responsibility for our thoughts, action and words.

May the light shine upon you.

I AM Moriah Elohim