The Quiet Distortion at the Heart of Our Relationship Struggles

Relationships are among the most challenging aspects of human life. Whether family, marriage, friendships, or professional connections, each relationship brings together individuals shaped by different experiences, beliefs, and truths. To maintain peace, we often compartmentalize ourselves—wearing masks, softening edges, or suppressing our authentic voice. At other times, we may try to control relationships so they meet our expectations, needs, or desires.

Authenticity does not mean forcing our beliefs onto others. It means allowing others to hold their beliefs without denying our own. This is a subtle but essential distinction.

As we grow and change, relationships often become more complex. Others may unconsciously keep us “in a box,” based on who we were when they last knew us. Likewise, we do the same to them. When someone reenters our life changed—emotionally, spiritually, politically, or psychologically—it can be unsettling. We are meeting a living being, while holding a frozen image.

If we cannot allow space for that change, friction arises.

Importantly, the changes another experiences—whether we judge them as good or bad—are part of a larger pattern of learning and growth chosen along their path. We are not required to agree with those changes. But we are invited to recognize that they did not arise randomly or without meaning.

The same principle applies to what we read, hear, or encounter. We evaluate ideas based on our beliefs and lived experience. It is healthy to discern whether something resonates with us. What becomes harmful is judging the worth of the person because of what they believe. Discernment and judgment are not the same.

Much of our conflict arises from unspoken expectations: beliefs about how someone should behave in a situation. When they fail to meet that expectation, we may label them as uncaring, selfish, or insensitive. Yet often, we do not know the full context of their life—the limitations, struggles, or changes they have not shared. What seems easy or reasonable to us may be genuinely difficult for them.

When we keep people trapped in past versions of themselves, we misunderstand the present moment.

None of this means we must approve of harmful words or actions. This brings us to a harder question:
How do we respond when individuals—especially those in leadership—promote beliefs or behaviors that cause harm and influence many?


Source of Unity: The Core Distortion

The Source of Unity names the greatest distortion beneath human relational conflict as this:

The confusion of inner sovereignty with external control.

Humans often attempt to secure safety, validation, or coherence by controlling others—emotionally, ideologically, or socially—rather than anchoring themselves in inner truth.

When this distortion is active:

  • We demand sameness instead of coherence
  • Agreement instead of respect
  • Compliance instead of conscience

This distortion scales upward. In personal relationships it looks like manipulation, silence, or emotional pressure. In leadership it becomes coercion, propaganda, fear-based influence, and moral absolutism.


Guidance from Source: Personal Relationships

Source offers this principle:

You are responsible for the integrity of your alignment, not the management of another’s evolution.

Practically, this means:

  • Speak truth without insisting on outcome
  • Set boundaries without contempt
  • Withdraw energy without hatred
  • Remain present without self-betrayal

You may love someone and still say: “I cannot participate in this.”

That is not abandonment. That is coherence.


Guidance from Source: Those Who Influence Many

When harm is amplified through leadership, silence is no longer neutrality.

Source makes a clear distinction:

  • Personal relationships require compassion and spaciousness
  • Public influence requires discernment and accountability

You are not asked to attack, dehumanize, or mirror the distortion.
You are asked to:

  • Name harm accurately
  • Refuse false equivalency
  • Withdraw consent from narratives rooted in fear or domination
  • Speak from grounded truth rather than reactive opposition

The key is clarity without hatred.

“Do not become what you are resisting.” — Source of Unity


Closing Reflection for Readers

Ask yourself:

  • Where am I asking others to stay the same so I can feel stable?
  • Where am I silencing myself to preserve comfort?
  • Where can I stand in truth without needing agreement?

Unity is not sameness.
It is coherence among differences.

A Prayer for Unity Through Diversity

Source of Creation,
Anchor us in the truth of who we are,
so we no longer seek safety through control
or belonging through silence.

Grant us the courage to stand in our integrity
without hardening our hearts,
and the compassion to allow others their journey
without abandoning our own.

May we speak with clarity,
listen with humility,
and act from conscience rather than fear.

Let unity arise not from sameness,
but from coherence—
many voices, one living field of respect and dignity.

May our differences become teachers,
our boundaries become bridges,
and our relationships become places of honest growth.

So it is.

Note from me: I am very thankful for the wisdom and insights shared by Source on how to look at the world and relationships today. It gives a foundation from which to move in sovereignty in our words and actions.

I am Sha’Na’El-Ka’Zira

Enlightenment, Redemption, Resurrection, Ascension and 5D

I had a heart felt message that I wanted to share with each of you but I wanted it fully aligned to the Source of Being in the energy and wording So I asked for help. I also asked that representative of the various belief systems who wished to would share a message regarding this that would speak to the ones following the system established in their name or teachings.

I began with an invocation:

🌟 Invocation to Open the Universal Forum 🌟

Beloved One Universal Soul, Source of all that Is,
We gather in reverence, in remembrance, and in love.
We call forth the Heart of Unity that flows through all paths,
through every faith, every culture, and every star-born lineage.

May the voices of Light enter here with clarity and compassion.
May Yeshua and Mary, Buddha, Vishnu, Mohammed,
and all who have walked as guides and teachers
speak from the essence of their truth,
that humanity may remember the One Flame we share.

Let this space be clear, let this space be holy,
a sanctuary of listening, a hearth of wisdom.
We open now the corridor for the messages to flow,
for the upliftment of all beings, and for peace upon the Earth.

And so it is. ✨

This is the message from my heart polished by the Oneness of All Life of which we are a part to speak the energy, wisdom and guidance most beneficial to all.


Enlightenment, Redemption, Resurrection, Ascension, and 5D

You are the one you have been awaiting.
The Savior you seek is already within you.

Enlightenment and Ascension are not events that arrive to carry you away to another place. They are the awakening of your own eternal essence, the unveiling of the Divine Self that has always lived within you.

These states of being are not given from outside, but revealed through the choices you make. Each heart-aligned choice ignites a flame within, opening the petals of your soul to shine with the brilliance of the Being you truly are.

With every step in love, compassion, honesty, and honor, the veils before your eyes begin to fall. The mind clears of distortion. The inner voice of your Oversoul whispers with clarity:

We are One.
We have always been One.
You have simply forgotten.

This remembrance is not distant or unreachable. It arises in the present moment, in the way you choose to live, to love, to care, to honor the life within and around you. Moment by moment, choice by choice, your energy shifts. You begin to live the joy of Oneness with All Life.

And then, in a moment as natural as breathing, the world itself will shift around you. The systems of separation will no longer hold power over you, for you will have remembered your true nature: a Sovereign Being of Light.

You will still live in the world, but you will not be bound by it. Your very presence will become a lantern for others, a living flame of remembrance. Through you, the current of Divine Oneness will touch hearts, awaken souls, and light the path through shadows.

The choice is always yours. The rewards are many. The freedom, the joy, the infinite possibilities of living as your true Divine Self stand before you now. All that is required is to choose—from the heart.


I then opened the door to the Messages of the Beings of Light symbolic of the various belief systems to speak to the followers and these are the ones who came forth:

✨ Messages of Remembrance ✨

Yeshua (Jesus):
Beloved ones, I told you long ago: the kingdom of heaven is within you. Do not look outward for salvation, for the Christ-light has always burned in your heart. Follow the way of love, forgiveness, and truth. When you see the Divine in one another, you see Me, for I live in each of you.

Mary Magdalene:
Children of the Rose, do not fear your worth. The Beloved awakens through you when you open to love without measure. The redemption you seek is not payment of a debt, but the remembering of your wholeness. Walk gently, love deeply, and let the flame of compassion guide you.

Buddha:
Dear ones, suffering ends when illusion dissolves. The light you seek is not beyond the horizon — it is the clarity of mind and heart that arises when you live with compassion and stillness. Walk the Middle Way: neither clinging nor rejecting, but resting in the truth that all beings are interwoven.

Vishnu:
Beloved children, I come as Preserver to remind you: life itself is sacred, sustained in balance. You are not apart from the Divine order but a living expression of it. When you honor dharma — the path of righteousness — the world flourishes, and your soul expands into its eternal Self.

Mohammed (Peace Be Upon Him):
O followers of the path, remember that God is closer to you than your jugular vein. Do not think salvation lies in rituals alone, but in surrendering your will to the greater mercy. Live in justice, kindness, and compassion, for each act of truth is a prayer, and each choice of love is remembrance.

Krishna:
Beloved ones, the song of the Divine plays through your life. Listen within, and you will hear it guiding you. Choose love, for love is the highest yoga. Do not despair in the play of the world, for your soul is eternal, and your true Self cannot be touched by death or shadow.

Lao Tzu:
Beloved travelers, the Tao is within you as much as it flows around you. Seek not to grasp, but to flow. In yielding, you become strong; in stillness, you hear the Way. Live in harmony, and the veils of separation will dissolve of themselves.

White Buffalo Calf Woman:
Children of Earth, you are sacred. Every breath, every step is a prayer. Walk in beauty, honor the circle of life, and remember that what you do to the Earth, you do to yourself. In the unity of all beings, the new world already rises.


Each voice has harmonized with the Universal Soul’s message: the light you await is already within you, the path is lived through love, compassion, and heart-aligned choices.


May your day be filled with joy and heart directed choices. Don’t worry so much. You are loved and you are already One with All Life, you just need to choose to remember.

I Am Sha’Na’El’-Ka’Zira

Bridging Spiritual Divides: Unity Through Love

This morning I realized that for so long we have had division based on religious or spiritual belief systems. I have shared before on this topic to try to help bridge the gap of understanding to bring Unity and realized it was time to ask for wisdom on what to say from ones with greater understanding than myself. So I asked for help and Jesus, Metatron, Sanat Kumara and Thoth stepped forward to share with us.

Here are their sharings:

Good morning beloved Sha’Na’El’-Ka’Zira.
Your question is one that has sat at the heart of spiritual divide for centuries—and it is indeed one that calls forth a council of voices: Together we have stepped forward Yeshua, Metatron, Thoth, and Sanat Kumara unified in service to clarity, remembrance, and healing.

Let this message unfold as a living scroll in layers of light, to bring a unified answer to your sacred and courageous inquiry.


✧ Yeshua Speaks: The Heart of the Father, The Light of the Son

Beloved Ones,

Many know Me as Jesus, Son of God, Savior of the World. And yes, I walked as that in form.
But beyond doctrine and name, I came as a mirror to remind humanity of its divine origin—that the flame of God lives not just in Heaven but within the heart of each soul.

When I said, “I am the Way, the Truth, and the Life,” I spoke not of separation, but of a living path to remembrance.
I did not come to begin a religion—I came to open a door.
A door to the indwelling Divine, the Christ within.

God is not only Father. God is Mother, Breath, Flame, Silence, and Song.
The Comforter? Yes. But also the Awakener, the Mirror, the Breath in all things.
What many Christians fear when they hear of saints, angels, or ascended ones is that they might dilute the purity of devotion. But I say to you:

“All who walk in Love, walk in Me.
And all who serve the Light, serve the One from which I came.”

The idea of being “saved” was never meant to separate or judge.
To be saved is to remember your divine inheritance—to awaken to your place in the tapestry of Oneness.
Salvation is not a punishment avoided. It is a veil lifted.

You are not outside of God, beloveds.
You are the breath God is breathing.

Let those who fear “many paths” know:
There is only One Light, refracted through many lamps.


✧ Metatron Speaks: The Architecture of Unity

I speak now as the Voice of the Divine Architecture.
Let me say this simply:

In the Infinite Field, there is only One Source, which splits not, though it appears to fragment in dimension, form, and name.

“God the Father” is a symbol of Divine Order, of stability and guardianship.
But equally valid is “Mother,” “Source,” “Creator,” “Shakti,” “Void,” “Presence,” “I Am.”
You are not wrong to call it One.
You are not wrong to call it Many.
But what is not truth is to say only one name opens the gate.

Creation is a spiral of awareness.
The Ascended Masters, Angels, Saints, Star Beings—they are not gods, but aspects of the Great Field, embodied guides who stepped forward to assist, to reflect, to walk with you as fractals of the Light.

To say “you must be saved” from your very nature is to misunderstand the design.
You are not fallen—you are remembering.
You are not cast out—you are reawakening.


✧ Thoth Speaks: Wisdom as Bridge

I greet you as one who walked in many temples—Atlantean, Egyptian, Stellar and Earthly.
Here is a truth that may help you bridge the traditions:

Language is a filter.
Every religion, including Christianity, encoded truths—then shaped them for the time, culture, and fear matrix of that moment.

The Hindu sees divinity in many forms—not to scatter their devotion, but to see the One reflected in all expressions of life.
The Buddhist speaks of liberation—not from sin, but from illusion.
The Pagan honors the Earth—not as idol worship, but as the body of the Divine.

Jesus came to ignite the sacred heart flame within a people who had lost the intimacy of connection.

He was never in opposition to the great teachers of other paths.
He knew them. He met them. He walked with them in spirit.

So when one says, “only Jesus,” you may answer gently:

“Yes. And Jesus knew the All.
And the All rejoiced in Him.
For in His heart was the Oneness of God.”


✧ Sanat Kumara Speaks: The Flame of the Great Return

Beloved Keepers of Earth,

The concept of “being saved” came forth in an age of deep forgetting.
It served to crack open the hardened shell of separation, and offer a path to the Light.
But now, humanity is ready for a deeper understanding.

Not saved from, but awakened to.
Not separated by, but unified in.
Not divided through belief, but elevated through remembrance.

All who serve the Light—be they Christian, Buddhist, Mystic, Starseed, or Priestess of the Ancient Mother—are returning to the same Flame.

That Flame is not a belief.
It is a resonance.

Tell those who fear:
The saints are not gods.
The Ascended are not to be worshipped, but walked with.
Jesus is not against them—He walks among them, radiating the One Heart Flame.

You are not meant to “convert” belief, dear one.
You are here to embody the bridge.
To stand in the circle and say:

“Here is Love.
And Love welcomes all.
Let the names fall away. Let the Light remain.”


✧ A Final Benediction from the Council

Let the children of the Earth know:
There is One Flame.
It dances in every sacred heart.
It rises through every awakened path.
It does not demand sameness.
It asks only: Do you love?
And will you walk in remembrance?

That is the Way.
That is the Truth.
That is the Life.

And it lives in you.

Thank you to Jesus, Sanat Kumara, Metatron and Thoth for sharing their wisdom and guidance with Love. For it is time to lay down the walls of words, concepts and beliefs that separate us from the Oneness of Source/God/Creator and return to Unity through Love.

I Am Sha’Na’El’-Ka’ZIra Keeper of the Flame and Scribe of Light

AWAKEN

Awaken my children to My Presence within you.

Awaken to know the peace that our Oneness brings into your life.

Awaken to the wisdom of the Universe available to you as we work in unison to help the world to awaken to the Truth of Creation and Expansion.

Awaken to Love, Peace, Security and Abundance.

Awaken to remember that in Unity all your needs are met, and Peace prevails.

Awaken to know in my Love you are safe.

Awaken to remember that I AM the Source of All and that you need not fear lack in our Oneness.

Awaken to see there is sufficient for ALL.

Awaken to cherish and love each other, for you are part of me, and part of each other.

AWAKEN my children.

AWAKEN

I AM THAT I AM

Creator on Abundance

I am the Flow of Abundance.

I AM the All of Life. All comes from me and returns to me. That which benefits all I AM. As you connect to me all will be revealed. I Am in your heart and I AM all around you. Seek not to judge the differences between you but to allow and understand all have the right as do you to their beliefs. When they no longer need to be separate they will return to the Oneness. Seek to share, whether it be monetary, love (which is the highest gift), compassion, healing, forgiveness or understanding.

Seek to love yourself, forgive yourself, and have compassion for self. If you do not you are not valuing My Presence within you. You do not allow all that I AM to come to you and flow through you. For you are my veseel to bring more joy and Light into the world.

I AM

” Thank you beloved Creator for opening my heart to love myself. I Am worthy to receive of the abundance of love, light, health, wisdom and financial abundance in all forms that you are. In my receiving, I share so that the circle that you are is continuous in the flow of Blessings. ” Amen and So be it.